A Vow of Obedience? Not for Me!

For many, the idea of a vow of obedience seems outdated, perhaps even restrictive. How can a Secular Franciscan, living in the world, embrace a concept that seems to run counter to our culture’s values of personal freedom?

The Franciscan View of Obedience

When we talk about obedience in the Franciscan context, we’re not talking about blind submission to an authority figure. We’re talking about a radical act of love and surrender, modeled on Jesus Christ himself. As Secular Franciscans, we don’t take a vow of obedience to a superior in the same way as our friar or sister counterparts. Instead, our obedience is directed toward God, the Church, and our Rule of Life.

Let’s look at Philippians 2:5-13, a passage foundational to our understanding of this topic: “Have among yourselves the same attitude of mind that is also yours in Christ Jesus…he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.” This is the core of Franciscan obedience: a willingness to “empty oneself” for the sake of love, following the example of Christ’s ultimate act of humility.

For St. Francis, obedience was not about giving up his will to a person, but about aligning his will with God’s. He saw obedience as the path to true freedom, a way to shed the chains of his own ego and desires. In fact, he warned against the pride of those who would only obey “when they will and what they will.”

How this Applies to Secular Franciscans

As Secular Franciscans, our life of obedience is practical and lived out in our daily circumstances. Our Essential Documents of the Secular Franciscan Order guide us here, but it’s not a list of rigid rules. Instead, it’s a call to a certain way of life.

Our obedience is expressed in several key ways:

• Obedience to the Gospel: This is our primary call. We commit to living the Gospel in our secular state, which means we strive to live as Jesus did—in humility, poverty, and love. This requires an ongoing conversion of heart, a daily “yes” to God’s will.
• Obedience to the Church: We are called to be in full communion with the Church and to be obedient to its teachings. This is a sign of our love for the Body of Christ and a recognition that we are not lone spiritual agents, but part of a larger community.
• Obedience to the Rule and Fraternity: We promise to live according to our Rule and Constitutions. This includes actively participating in the life of our fraternity, which helps us to grow in community and to put aside our own will for the good of the group.

In this light, a vow of obedience isn’t about giving up your will to another person. It’s about a daily commitment to follow Christ, to live the Gospel, and to walk in the footsteps of St. Francis, trusting that this path leads to genuine freedom and joy. The freedom of the Christian is not in doing whatever one wants, but in doing what God wants. And in that, there is true peace.

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